5 ways to meet Thai girls

Almost no feeling is better than the feeling when you get out of Suvarnabhumi airport in Bangkok after a long flight. A wall of hot air is hitting you straight in the face and you can see the palm trees everywhere. You are in Thailand! 😀

You know that for the next weeks, you’ll meet a lot of sexy, feminine and sweet Thai girls that you’ll have a lot of fun with.

I have tried a lot of different methods to get a Thai girl on the hook and some works better than others. Read up here at Goodbye Boring Life so you don’t have to waste your precious time in Thailand.

Online dating

There are a lot of dating sites out there. And I have tried a lot of them, but after discovering Thai Cupid I have never bothered to use anything else.

Why? Thai Cupid has over 1 million users all over Thailand. You can find girls at Thai Cupid even in the smallest hut in Thailand here. It’s just so many girls on Thai Cupid that it can be overwhelming at times. Especially if you are searching for girls in Bangkok, Pattaya, Phuket or Chiang Mai.

You can sort girls after age, height, weight or whatever you want.

Another wonderful thing with Thai Cupid is that you can sign up before you go to Thailand. If you do that you can chat up a lot of girls and create your own little harem of girls that are ready to meet you when you arrive. 😀

If you have a boring job at home with a lot of spare time, why not use your time chatting up Thai girls at Thai Cupid? 😀



Tinder is a dating app for phones that sort girls after location. So when you are using it you will only get girls that are near you. Perfect if you already are in Thailand. If you are in tourist places such as Phuket or some of the popular islands, prepare to scroll through a lot of white trash before you find a cute Thai girl.

I’ve had some luck with Tinder in Bangkok. But I have to be honest, I really hate to chat with a mobile phone because the keyboard is so small. I rather pull up my laptop and take a Thai Cupid session.

Girls in everyday situation

This is probably my favorite way to meet Thai girls. Because if you ask a lady out in real life you already got a feel for how she is and behave.

If you date a girl at a online dating site you really never know what she’s like before you meet her. That can of course be exiting, but sometimes it can be a waste of time too. Maybe she used photos of herself that are 5 years old? Maybe she photo shopped her photos to look better than she really look?

However, if you are coming to Thailand for just a short 2 week trip, I still recommend chatting up girls at Thai Cupid, just in case you don’t have any luck with hooking up with receptionists and restaurant workers.

To get a better feel for the girls you meet at Thai Cupid, you can also ask for their Skype for video calls and Facebook to see what they are doing on their free time.

Where do you meet Thai girls in real life? 


Hotels, restaurants, shopping malls, on the beach, in drug stores, at the street, in the sky train, at the airport or in an airplane on a domestic flight. In the hospitals there are a lot of cute nurses if you should ever become sick in Thailand. There is really no limit! 😀

My favorite is hotel receptions. In Thailand you have to look good to work in front desks. Especially at the 4 and 5 stars hotels. You also need a bachelor degree at most hotels, so those girls are usually very ambulatory. 😀

Just walk in at whatever hotel you find, and there will be some hot girls standing around in the front desk. 😀


If you don’t want to waste your time with dates, rejections and foreplay, and just want the fun stuff straight away. You always have the hookers ready to entertain you at any time. I’m totally guilty of this because the availability makes it so tempting and the prices are so friendly for your wallet.

It’s really hard to stay away.

There are countless of different types of hookers in Thailand. Go go girls, beer bar girls, soapy massage girls, massage girls, blow job bar girls, freelancers and girls that will do different types of fetishes like BDSM, anal sex and role games.

I will not go into prices in this post, but if you want to know more about that, check out my Thailand Sex Guide and Sex Holiday in Thailand: Planning and costs.

Bars and nightclubs

This is an option too, but I don’t think this is a good way to meet girls in Thailand.

The reason is that most Thai people go to nightclubs with friends, family and boyfriends, and they always come in big groups. Getting inside those groups as a farang can be very hard, and if you hit on a girl that have her Thai boyfriend close by you can get in some real trouble.

Not only that, bars and nightclubs are loud environments and it can be hard to hear what people say. That combined with Thai peoples lack of English skills is a bad combination.

Another point to this is that Thai people will go to nightclubs in areas that are only catering to Thai people. If you ask a taxi or a tuk tuk driver about a good nightclub, they will always bring you to the tourists nightclubs that are full of hookers and gold digging whores. Not the ones that are full of normal Thai people just having fun. So then we are right back to my third point about hookers anyways.

That was it for this guide, as you can see there is a lot of possibilities in Thailand. It’s not hard for a man to get his dick wet down here.

Have fun! 😀

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