Dating beautiful Thai women is a little bit like shooting heroin up your arm. Once you tried it, you have an high probability becoming addicted. I know that’s a pretty stupid comparison but that’s the best I could come up with, so deal with it!
I’ve dated, and I’ve had relationships with several Western woman before I discovered that there is an entire world out there with feminine, gentle and beautiful women who makes women in my home country pale in comparison.
Before I became a well traveled person I had this arrogant attitude that “Scandinavian girls are the best in the world”. Everything outside our borders was dirty, strange and dangerous.
I could not be more wrong.
Fact is that people back home have less sex than any generation for the past 100 years, and 1/4 men under 40 reports erectile dysfunction. I wonder if that can have any correlation with the steady decline of Western women?
Yes, this post will be very generalizing. All I’m talking about in this post are similarities I see among women in Thailand and back home.
Of course you can find sweet and gentle white woman too, it’s just that you are much more likely to find a white women who have gotten fat, taken ugly tattoos, smell alcohol and cigarettes, is possessed with special snowflake syndrome or that they just act so fucking entitled you just want to run away.
In fact. I think that the blonde Scandinavian look is one of the most beautiful looks a girl can have. It’s just to bad most of them show total neglect for their appearance and conduct.
Ok. So now we have gotten that out of the way. Lets start the class my pupils.
Why are Thai women so awesome?
#1: Thai women know how to take care
I remember my second white girlfriend I had back home in the beginning of my twenties. One morning I woke up with a terrible stomach ache, body ache and mild fever. It was nothing critical or dangerous, but I had some very uncomfortable days.
What was my white girlfriends reaction? “Call me when you’re feeling better and we can be together again. I don’t want to get infected by you”… At that time I didn’t know any better so I tolerated the bad behavior, but had that happened today I would dump her immediately.
I remember I had to nag at her so she would go to the supermarked to pick up painkillers and ready-made soup. When she got back she didn’t even bother to pour hot water into the ready-made soup before she flew out of the door again. I had to get out of my comfortable warm bed, which really is a pain in the ass when you have fever, and do everything myself.
She even asked for the money back for the 3$ ready-made soup.
She was too lazy to pour hot water in my soup, but not lazy enough to ask for 3$. What the hell..
How would a Thai Women react?
Well. I can tell you that right away because I’ve been in the company of a Thai woman several times when I’ve been sick.
A Thai women, the moment you tell her you’re not feeling well, will turn her attention radar 110% towards you. But most likely you don’t need to tell her, because she has already noticed that something is not right.
She will instantly ask you: “What is wrong? Is there anything I can do?” while she observe you for any anomaly.
The moment you tell her what is wrong she will already be out of the door getting medicine, healthy groceries and some snack for you.
You’ve already told her many times that you can take care of yourself, but she still insist taking care of you.
When she come back she will start cooking up a healthy soup for you that taste better than any soup you’ve ever had at any restaurant ever. After she have served the soup she’ll give you the medicine accompanied with lukewarm water and some snacks, then continue to observe you while she look for any improvements.
If you get better she will be happy for you while already planning what you will do together when you’re up and running again.
If you become worse, she will be sad while insisting you go to the doctor.
In 2013 I was on my second trip to Thailand. When I was Chiang Mai I got a terrible stomach flu so I ended up in the hospital because of severe stomach pain.
I girl that I had been talking with a few days found out that I was in the hospital. Out of nowhere she came to my hospital room with home made food and snacks. For the next three hours she just sat next to my bed holding my arm while entertaining me with her very broken but charming English accent.
That would maybe happen in the Western world if you had last stage cancer.
#2: Thai women know how to cook food
I think it’s important that women know how to cook up some basic healthy and tasty dishes from scratch. Women carry children, and she is the one who will take care of them the first years.
It’s important that your children get healthy and nutritious food in the beginning when they grow fast, so they become healthy human beings later in life. Having a strong foundation is important. Just look at obesity among kids in the Western world vs Southeast-Asia.
All Western women I’ve been with had no clue how to cook up basic dishes. They’ve all been living on ready-made food from the supermarkeds and fast food from the big chains.
Now… Just have point number 1 and 2 above in your mind, then you ask yourself; what kind of woman would you want raising your kids?
#3: Thai women know how to make men happy
A Thai monk from about a hundred and sixty years ago, Sunthorn Phu (d. 1855) have been guiding Thai women on how they should behave and act in society. His writings are still relative today.
He is one of old Siam’s most revered poets and philosophers, and his premise “Maxim for the Conduct of Ladies” has been passed on from mother to daughter and taught to girls in Thai schools since the days of Rama V (the great King of Thailand in the 19th century that brought Siam into the modern world).
All Thai women, whether they are a bar girl, a teacher, a lawyer or even the Prime Minister of Thailand continue to practice some of these maxims in their everyday life.
These maxims guide Thai women on everything from how they should move their hips, how they should swing their arms, how they should talk in public to how they should behave around men.
The result of all these maxims is that Thai women are very pleasant human beings to be around until this day.
Here are some more stuff Thai women will do that certainly will make you feel appreciated:
- When you are out eating together, and your glass is empty. She will fill it up.
- When your shirt is curly she will straight it out for you, and if you spill something on yourself she will do her best to remove it.
- When you loose money on the floor, she will pick it up, and if your hair gets messed up by the wind, she will fix it up.
- She will constantly touch you gently with her arms guiding you around so you don’t hit anything.
#4: Thai women are feminine, gentle and care about their appearance
You will never see a Thai woman out in public in a hoodie three sizes too big or worn out sweatpants. That’s something I see back home all the time. I Thai girl will always make sure her appearance is on the mark whenever she’s out in public.
Thai girls dress cute, sharp and clean.
She will usually wear simple but beautiful dresses that promotes her femininity and gentleness.
Thai women care a lot about their body too, and will never let their it go to hell with obesity, tattoos or piercings.
A well maintained female body is in fact a masterpiece just the way it is. No need to do anything with something so perfect.
#5: Thai women want children
There is something terrible wrong with the Western world when it breeds a generation of girls who don’t want children.
Ask any teenager or young women in the Western world if they want kids, and they will most likely answer no or just become very insecure, like it’s something shameful to wish.
Ask any Thai girl and you’ll get a loud and confident “of course” while she look at you like you’re crazy for even asking such a question.
#6: Thai women are easy going
But maybe the most important trait of Thai women is that they are easy going.
They will never stress, nag or dwell on anything for an eternity and she will not over analyze every little situation beyond insanity.
Any girl who is constantly stressed, nagging, or just not enjoying life can easily sap the joy out of yours too.
Not worth it!
There are several more reasons why Thai women are superior to Western women, but after reading this you should have a good idea what is waiting for you down here.
If you’ve already been in Thailand. What did you like about Thai women? Tell me in the comment section I would love to hear!