How to get the Thai girl in 5 steps

How to pick up almost any Thai girl

Today I will tell you how to get almost any Thai girl that you desire in 5 easy steps. Notice the word almost. I’ve been with a lot of Thai women so you defiantly landed on the right page if you found this post on Google. 🙂

I’ve been reading a lot lately on other blogs and forums about Thai girls and how to have the best possible game on them. In this post I will try to wrap it up nicely while I put in my own thoughts too.

Some of the steps will require more work than others, but if you want to be a player like me that can seduce a lot of girls and smash a ton of pussy – without turning to hookers – it’s totally worth the time and effort.

How to get the Thai girl in 5 steps

Step 1: Dress sharp, get a haircut and take a damn shower. 

Lets start with the basic.

I feel this one should be unnecessary to mention, but I see so many guys out there that dress like bums and smell like sewage. Just because you are in a developing country doesn’t mean no one cares what you look or smell like.

In fact. In Thailand your appearance is very important, maybe even more important than in the Western world as Thailand is a class society. How you dress can influence how much pussy you get greatly.

Making a good first impression is just as important in Thailand as anywhere else.

Go inside any shopping mall in Bangkok and see how people dress. Everyone dress casual and/or conservative. Girls go in cute dresses that don’t reveal too much while the men goes in jeans and shirts.

To make it even more clear:

What clothes should you not wear? 

  1. Tanktops. singlets, old t-shirts, fotball t-shirts, Singha t-shirts, ‘I Love Bangkok’ t-shirts etc..
  2. Shorts in general, swimming-shorts, sweatpants, elephant pants etc…
  3. Clothes that are worn out, dirty or that have spots.
  4. Provocative clothes. Like “Good boys go to heaven, bad boys go to Pattaya”.

What clothes should you wear?

  1. Polo shirts, shirts, sweaters, blazers etc…
  2. Jeans or casual shorts…
  3. Anything that look like you know what you’re doing!

Basically you don’t want to look like this:

Optimally you want to dress as casual / normal as possible, maybe even slightly formal. Yes, I know Thailand is a hot place. But what’s the most important? Feel cool at all times, or get all the pussy that you dreamed about when you was a kid? 😀

Priorities… priorities my friends.

If you dress like a typical tourist who walk around in a Singha singlet and Bermuda shorts. Thai girls will look at you like an normal tourist who are just in town for a couple of days.

If you dress casual however, girls will think: “Oohh, why does he dress like that here? He looks important. Maybe he lives here? I want to know him!”.

Thai girls are in fact really generous giving men compliments on their appearance. If a Thai girl give you a compliment that is almost always an invitation.

You can buy shirts all over Thailand that are custom-tailored for a fraction of the price as home. I usually pay 1000 – 1500 baht per shirt if I buy 4-5 of them. This is a great investment because they are of high quality, they last long and they fit you perfectly.

You want to stand out from the crowd.

You can read more here where I buy my clothes in Bangkok

Always look your best. 

Step 2: Exercise

Exercising helps on everything in life. Not only will your posture and body look better. You will also feel better. Shit like that get noticed by the ladies.

If you are feeling good they are feeling good. Win win guys!

Not to forget all the health benefits exercising has, but that is a topic for another time.

If you approach a girl while feeling good and high on life. The girl will pick up that vibe immediately and she will want to be a part of it.

Just think about it. Of all the people you know. Who do you want to hang out with? The friend who is always stressed out and in a bad mood, or the people who are happy and easy going? A good vibe is contagious and everyone wants to be around people like that.

My routine is jogging Monday, Wednesday and Friday, while doing push-ups and sit-ups the day I don’t go for a run. I also like to swim in the ocean whenever I get that opportunity.

I have also started to do yoga. This is extremely relaxing and refreshing, and if done right, can make you feel awesome for the rest of the day. Girls pick up this vibe, trust me.

Last time I was in the flotation tank here in Bangkok, I met a girl right after ny session. The first thing she told me was: “Oohh. You look so alive. What’s your secret?”.

Step 3: Stand out!

There are so many men who come to Thailand just to treat the local girls like subhumans. These men think they are better or ‘above’ an average Thai girl. Just think about it. The majority of men coming to Thailand to find Thai ladies go straight to Pattaya – and they stay there until they go home.

Don’t be those guys.

The best way to attract Thai girls is to stand out from all the hungry fools. Treat the girl like a human being. Be funny, be a gentleman, listen to her, touch her gently and compliment her. Chances are that she have never met a guy like that before. She will fall in love with you immediately.

If you have any unique talents, now is the time to show off. These talents can be:

  • Singing
  • Dancing
  • Being funny
  • Being romantic
  • Ear for languages

Anything you can do to stand out from the typical tourist will go a long way. Girls will throw themselves after you.

Be clear in your intent

I’ve been with so many Thai girls just to say something like this:

Me: Listen. I really like you. I think you are a beautiful and funny girl. I really want to continue this night with you.
Her: *blushes* Do you really mean that?”
Me: Yes *take her hand and start walking towards my place* lets go to my place
Her: If you say so. I like you too.

What I really love about dating in Thailand is how straight forward it is. No need to be a cocky douchebag with an inflated ego and self-esteem.

Just be yourself, smile and lead.

Actually. Just do everything the opposite of what you’d do in the West.

Be nice, be polite, be cordial and tell the girls your real feelings.

Step 4: Learn Thai

Being able to speak Thai with Thai girls is a game changer. And when I say game changer, I mean it.

My game went through the roof after I learned some basic Thai. The response you get from the girls are frankly amazing. I think there is no other place on earth you can get that kind of response just because you know some of their language.

If you know some basic Thai you go straight out of the ‘tourist box’, and you become one of them. You are on their team now.

Another great thing with speaking Thai is that you can communicate with a big part of Thai people who don’t speak English.

Let me tell you a fun story about just this.

My brother was an exchange student in Thailand some years ago. When he went to school here he learned to speak Thai fluent throughout the year. He can have conversations, he can write and he can read. He can talk with anyone in Thai.

This summer he came to Thailand to go to the Full Moon party. I was there too. He got sick from some bacteria from the buckets and had to go to the hospital. First he talked English with them, and the hospital quickly said that this was a private hospital (First Western Hospital at Koh Pha Ngan) and that he had to pay full price.

Then he started to talk Thai with them. The entire staff started to jump around in the emergency room like maniacs. “Whaat, you speak Thai?? Oh my god, why do you speak Thai? Who teach you?.!? Woow. You REALLY speak Thai!!!!”.

Even the doctor in his 60’s was like: “Your brother speak very good Thai” while he was clapping his hands and joking with the nurses. All of them went nuts.. 😀 😛

Fast forward 2 hours. My brother went out of that hospital paying nothing. They had tested him for infection, they had done blood samples, checked the blood pressure, urine test and a lot of other stuff.

If he didn’t talk Thai he would probably have to pay 2000 – 3000 baht for all those tests..

So as you can see. If you can get a free check at hospital by speaking Thai. You can probably get some free pussy too!

By the way. You don’t have speak fluent of course. Just learn something more than “Sawatde krap” and “sabaidee mai krap”.

Trust me, this will get you a ton of pussy.

Step 5: Have fun

Dating is supposed to be fun! Both for you and the girl.

In Thailand this is even more important than in the West. Having fun while you do anything in Thailand is important. Fun in Thai is “Sanuuk” and could just as well be their national slogan.

Most Thai people have the attitude that ‘if something isn’t fun, it isn’t worth doing’.

If you can express to whatever girl that you want to date that you want to have fun. You will probably win her heart right away.

Go take her ice-skating in one of the shopping-malls, bring her to the movies, take her to a good restaurant or go drinking if she’s up for that.

Prepare to have a lot of sanook!

The best way to meet beautiful Thai girls

The most effective way to meet beautiful Thai girls is to find them online. Another great thing with with online dating sites is that you can start to hit up girls before you come to Thailand. That way you can have several girls ready to meet you when you arrive.

I used to do that every year when I holidayed in Thailand before I moved down her permanently.

Thai Cupid is the biggest dating site for Thailand with over 1 million members. It’s a goldmine.


If you follow these steps I guarantee you that you will get more pussy than you can ever handle in Thailand. I know that’s a bold statement but believe that to be true.

I’m not saying this to brag, but I’m in that situation right now. It’s pure freedom. I don’t have to worry about getting laid and I can focus on my work and business instead. When I was living in the West I had several dry periods with no girls available. It was a sad life…

But now… If I want to have fun, have sex, or just company to watch a movie. I just make a quick phone call and I will have some of my girls in my apartment within a couple of hours.

Always try to look your best, exercise regularly to feel fresh and sharp. When you feel sharp, girls will notice. It’s also easier to pick up signs and body language from the girls that they might like you when you feel sharp and alert after a workout.

If you learn some Thai, and you make it clear that you are up for fun you will stand out from the crowd and have an enormous edge.

Then you just have to take your responsibility as a man, and lead her to bed.

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