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The last year I have been more happy than I’ve ever been in my life. You only have one life, and if you’re not happy or having fun, you’re wasting very precious time IMHO.
In fact, that is people’s biggest regret when they are on the deathbed. They regret that they were more concerned with what others think about them, than to do what they really want. Whatever it is.
Don’t take life for granted, there is a big probability that you only get one shot at this. Make it right, and one life is more than enough.
Here are some conclusions I have come to over the last year on how to be happy in life. I’m not saying this is a blueprint or anything, but it’s been working for me.
Rule 1: Work hard
“Only through discipline can you have freedom”. I don’t remember where I read or heard that quote, or if the quote was just like that, but it makes a lot of sense.
If you don’t have discipline, you will never get anything done and you will never get out of your hometown. Discipline is the most important trait that will eventually get you freedom.
I spent 3 years figuring out how I can make money online. I had no idea if it would work, or if I would even make it. But I didn’t give up because I had discipline and determination.
It did pay off eventually because now I live in Thailand, and I have everything a man can dream of to be happy.
I spend my time hunting pussy in Bangkok and enjoying life on tropical islands such as Koh Pha Ngan and Koh Yao Noi. Will I do this forever? Probably not… But I will enjoy the hell out of it as long as it last.
If I find the perfect women I will probably settle down at some point. I’m only 28 years old so I’m in no rush tho. 😛
Rule 2: Have a lot of women
If you’re a man, and you want to live a happy life. I think it’s important to have access to a lot of women in your life. Nothing makes a man more happy than to have sex with young and sexy women. This is something most men desire, and having a lot of women will make you more happy. That’s a fact!
Another important aspect of this is that only by having sex with a lot of different women, can you find the women of your dreams. It’s like trying a new car. You don’t buy the first car you come across, you try a bunch of them, compare them, then you decide which one you like the most.
So many beta guys back home just ‘took what they got’, and are now stuck with some brat they would never even touch if they got their shit together, broke up, and came down here to Thailand and saw what was on offer. But they just stay with their troll because it’s the only pussy they have access to, and they’re afraid to lose it.
If the women in your hometown or country sucks, be the alpha, get your shit together, and move to a better location.
That’s what I did. I was sick of obese women that walks around with an attitude like they’re the fucking shit. Which brings me to my next rule.
Rule 3: Travel
This is a tip that I give all people I met. Go travel. Get a new perspective on things. Don’t just sit in your boring hometown thinking it’s the best place on earth. It’s probably not the best place. If you want to meet fun and interesting people they are out there on the road. The boring people stay home doing nothing as usual.
The world have A LOT to offer you. It’s not a dangerous place and most people you will meet are nothing but super friendly.
You will realize that there are better women out there than in your own hometown. Find more feminine and easy-going women. You will find women with more attractive manners and ways of doing stuff. Actually you will figure out a lot of shit.
Personally I like to travel slow. The last year I’ve been mostly in Bangkok, and I have done short to medium side trips from here. Phuket, Koh Yao Noi, Koh Yao Yai, Koh Pha Ngan, Koh Tao, Siem Reap, Sukhothai, Chiang Mai to mention some.
If you are not traveling you are making a big fucking mistake in your life. Stack up some cash, get your passport and jump on a train, boat or a plain. Read up on my webpage and get a ton of good advice. If you subscribe to my newsletter I would be very happy too. 🙂
Rule 4: Stay fit
You were born with one body, and if you fuck it up, there is no store where you can buy a new one. Too many people have chronic lifestyle diseases because they chose to live a shitty lifestyle. That is sad (for them).
It’s so easy to take your health for granted, because health is not really an issue before you get some shit in your luggage. Then it might be too late to do anything about it.
Staying fit is alpha omega to live a happy life.
If you have never exercised before, it will be painful as fuck in the beginning. Your lounges will itch, you legs will cramp up, you will be sore for days after your first session. This is all temporary and as you continue to work out and push yourself, you will actually start to feel better after each session.
I won’t start a discussion about what exercising does for your body, because everyone knows that exercising is good for pretty much everything in life.
More energy, less stress, better health, you will live longer, you will last longer in bed, less likely to get lifestyle diseases, you will feel sharper, you will be more attractive to other people. The list goes on forever.
And meanwhile in the Western world…
‘The fat acceptance’ movement I read about in the news back home is a fucking disaster. The US, and now also Europe, have the biggest concentration of obese people in the world. It’s fucking disgusting.
But it gets worse. Now they want us to accept them and find them attractive too. Wtf..?? “Beauty comes in all shapes and sizes” they say. You know what. Fuck you.. You’re a lazy loser, you just want people to accept your laziness so you can feel good about yourself for doing nothing. Nothing is attractive about lazy and fat losers. You lost in life, and when you lie on your deathbed you will be full of regret.
Rule 5: Don’t give a shit what other people think
As long as you’re not hurting anyone, do what the fuck you want, and don’t listen to what other people have to say about it. No matter what you choose to do, there will always be some jackass that have a strong opinion about just that.
Start a webpage like this? Some women will say I’m a sexist pig. Maybe I am? I don’t care..
Start a shelter for homeless dogs? Some asshole will say let nature do its job.
Not having children? You’re a loser..
Why give a shit? Just do whatever makes you happy, that’s all that matter…
Dont listen to your mother
If you’re young, and you read this website. Don’t listen to your mother. She loves you, and she just want you to be safe. Safe is boring. She don’t want you to take a fucking chance, and do something outside the box. Like moving to a developing country. She will be happy if you just have an average life in an average job. As long as you’re safe, she has done her job as a mother.
My sister was not happy about me moving to Thailand. But she is misinformed by the feminist media. She thinks Thailand is like some shit-hole country like in Africa. She won’t even come here to visit me because she thinks it’s dangerous. Whatever…
Rule 6: Don’t argue with people.
I’ve found that it’s almost impossible to change people. Very few people will change themselves or change their opinion; even when you have the best argument. I don’t know why this is, but it’s probably some kind of defense mechanism. Their opinion is a part of their identity, and they will do anything to defend it.
What works better is to just show them. When I came back from vacation from Thailand the first time. I tried to tell people how awesome it was, how the women was, how it was better than home, how amazing the food was etc. What was the response..?
“Yeahh, you probably just had ladyboys”, “You probably just paid for everything” “I know you exaggerating, nothing is that good”… bla bla bla.
Today however. I put pictures on Facebook once in a while about what I do down here. Pictures with Thai friends, pictures with hot women around me. I have pictures of me with a hot women on the beach while sipping fruit juices and eating snacks. I have pictures where I eat fucking amazing food etc..
Today they don’t ask me if it’s ladyboys anymore, they ask me careful in a private massage “Dude, is life down there really like your pictures?”, “How do you meet so many women down there, are you rich? What did you do?”. “Can you show me around if I come to Thailand?”, “dude, what the fuck happened. Suddenly you are swimming in pussy and eat amazing food everyday..?”
Stop wasting your time trying to change people or convince them about anything. Life is too short to do that stuff. Instead, just leave them and show them you were right. If they still don’t realize it, well, nothing you can do about that.
Rule 7: Stay away from idiots
They sit in the bars of Thailand complaining about everything. Life was better in the old days, hookers where cheaper 5 year ago, the exchange rate has never been worse than now.
You’ll find them on thaivisa.com forums. Spending their entire day just talking nonsense. Telling you why your idea suck, why that business plan won’t work, why making websites are stupid. They spend all their days doing nothing productive while they shit on other people
You’ll find them in your hometown. They talk shit about everything outside their own town. The world is a bad place, they’re glad they are in THIS town, because THIS town is the BEST. But the weather was better last decade, and they don’t like that weird guy in that yellow house…
They are everywhere. The best thing to do is to just avoid these type of people. They will just suck the energy out of you, and nothing will make them more happy than to see you fail. Because that’s what they did. They failed with everything in life and now they want to see you fail.
Don’t spend your energy on it. It will only make you exhausted. They will drag you down on their level.
You have one life, spend it wisely. Ditch negative people even if it’s your own family. Be selfish, and make your life awesome. Bang a hooker when you need to and don’t take stuff so fucking serious. When people see that you have an awesome life, maybe they will listen to you then. If they still don’t listen, they are lost. There is nothing you can do.
That’s it for this time. Some tips from my perspective and I appreciate all the people who read my site.