What’s going on guys?
In this post I will give my ideas on how you can deal with jealousy in Thailand. If you read my post from a couple of weeks ago, you know what I’m talking about.
Here is the deal…
99.9% of all Thai people are extremely jealous.
In the Western world jealousy is seen as a bad and petty thing, in Thailand it just means that “they care”. That might sound crazy, but that is what a Thai girl will tell you if she’s jealous.
If you tell a Thai girl to stop being jealous, she will answer back something like “Okay, I will stop caring about you” or “I will stop my feeling with you”.
If you eat a pizza, and you get some tomato sauce on your cheek without noticing, then you go meet the girl you are dating, she will freak out while asking “who?!??!?”. Then you will be all like “Wtf are you talking about” because you don’t know about the tomato sauce before she quickly respond “you have lipstick on your face!! WHO?!?!?”.
If you forget to turn of your computer before you sleep so it look like you are online all night at Facebook, she will quickly ask you the next day “who were you with last night?!?!? Why you up so late??”…
If you send her a message that doesn’t fit in the conversation because of auto correct, she will instantly reply “Who you talk with?!?!? You send wrong?!?!?!”..
These girls walk around constantly paranoid about you banging or seeing other girls.
You can’t really blame them either. Thailand is the sex capital of the world, and as soon as you walk around here alone dressed slightly sharper than a homeless guy, or you’re white, girls will jump on your dick from every direction. Your girlfriend knows this too.
Regardless, it’s still a pain in the ass, and you have to deal with this early on, or it will only get worse and worse as she get more involved.
Just last week I was drinking at a bar in Bangkok with a new girl that I met, suddenly a girl came out of nowhere and started screaming like a maniac to the guy next to me.
After 20 seconds of screaming, she took the beer jug and the phone to that guy then smashed everything on the pavement. Then she left… WTF….
I asked the guy some minutes later who the girl was, and he said it was his ex-girlfriend. He said his ex-GF was mad because he was dating a new girl. If that is true or not I don’t know. Could be that he’s cheating also. Who knows..
My point is that when these people get angry or jealous, it can go overboard pretty fast when they lose their cool. Thai people are usually chill, but when they get angry holy shit run for your life.
In Thailand girls and boys don’t hang out together as friends. If two people of different genders are together, alone, everyone will think they have a relationship. The rumors will start going.
Thailand is not like the Western world were it’s totally fine to have friends of both genders, and where you can be with a person of the opposite sex without anyone thinking anything about it.
Maybe you can in some social circles down here with people who are studied abroad etc, but for the most part this apply all over Thailand.
So what can you do about it?
As soon as a girl that you are dating show signs of being jealous, you have to make it crystal clear that you won’t tolerate it. Say that you are a trustworthy guy, and not like Thai guys that fucks around like rabbits 24/7.
Tell her if she make this type of drama again, ever, it’s over.
At the same time you tell her that you will not hang around with other Thai girls as this is seen as a bad thing in Thailand if you already have GF. As people here (her friends) will think that you are a butterfly that is fucking around. Not good…
At the same time, tell her very clearly that when you are back in your country, she can’t go around making drama when you are talking with / hanging out with female friends.
If you tolerate this behavior it can really get out of hand and the girl will make you crazy as she will nag about other girls constantly.
As a general rule. Never talk about other girl that you have met in the past, the present or will in the future.
If your buddy got too drunk, tipped the bar girl 3000 baht because she had a nice ass, don’t tell your girlfriend that. Your girlfriend will twist that into “Oh, your friend tipped the girls? So that means the girls talked with you too”. You get the point here..
Keep your secrets secret.
Okay. So everything is working out fine with your girlfriend. You are living together and life is good.
Lets say you still want to have some fun at times, go to bars, meet buddies, maybe flirt with some girls without actually going anywhere with it, etc etc..
You also want to document this with your phone without your girlfriend finding out about your adventures.
Keepsafe will save your life
I’m using an app called Keepsafe. It’s a discreet app that look like an app for something technical on your phone. However, it’s really an app where you can import your private pictures behind a pin-code wall.
Unless your girl know about this app, she will never get suspicious about the app.
As soon as you have imported your pictures into the app, they will disappear from the regular album / picture folder. The only way to see the pictures again is to go into the Keepsafe app, insert your pincode, and look at the pictures from within the app.
You can also export the pictures from Keepsafe again, if you want to put the pictures on a computer later.
This way you can keep your phone open for you girlfriend, and she will never be suspicious about why she can’t play with you phone.
Because that is another thing. A lot of girls here will let you make a fingerprint in her phone, just to show you that they have nothing to hide. However, they want the same thing back from you.
That’s why Keepsafe comes in handy. You can hide everything that you don’t want to show her, and she can play with your phone. Everyone happy. 🙂
CM AppLock is another app I’ve tested out. It put apps of your choice behind a pin-code or fingerprint lock.
However, this is not a good app to hide stuff from you girlfriend as she will be suspicious about why you have a pin-code lock on certain apps. If you want to hide your pictures you also need to put a pin-code on every app that have access to you picture folder, like Facebook, Messenger, Camera etc. You have to type in the pin-code every time you open these apps. It’s just a pain in the ass.
Double sim-card phones.
A dude I met at a massage parlor some time ago showed me something really awesome. He had double sim-card slots in his phone. It basically means that he can have two different ‘phones’ in one phone. He could open different parts of the phone with different finger prints.
He used his BIG TOE to open the dirty part of the phone because he told that one of his girls had tried to open his phone with his finger while he slept. That shit was hilarious.
That’s it guys! Thai girls are cute and cool girls 99% of the time that is fun to be with. I would take any Thai girl over those fat obese pale Western women back home that can’t even take a fucking shower because it’s hip to be dirty and not shave armpits.
As long as you can keep the jealousy in checkmate you have nothing to worry about with Thai girls.